Leading your pony

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Ponyplay basic training

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In ponyplay, just like in the bio-equine world, stand to the left of your pony. You will also want to stand slightly ahead of your pony: the pony should remain to your right and slightly behind at all times. Hold the pony's reins (or lead rope if the pony is in a halter) in your right hand about 12-18 inches away from where the reins attach to the bit. Hold any excess rein neatly coiled or folded in your left hand. Show your pony you trust him/her by leaving some slack in the lead rope/reins and only tighten up when he misbehaves or breaks the rules. Insist on a least a foot of space between you and your pony at all times. When your pony invades your space, whatever the reason, push him off and jab him gently in the shoulder with your elbow. You can also flick your pony with the end of the reins or with a crop if you have one. If your pony gets distracted while being led, snap the lead line/reins down sharply; this will help him focus on you again. If your pony does not listen even after you tug sharply backwards on the reins, then you should pull him sharply to the side to make him walk in a circle. Tighten the circle until he stops, then you can start walking in a straight line again. On the other hand, if your pony does not want to move forward, you should start pulling him sharply in your direction in a tight circle. This works well because you will take him off-balance, and he cannot put all his weight into resisting you when he off balance. Finally, use the power of your voice: when you want your pony to halt, use a command in addition to your physical cue (i.e., whoa, halt, walk, back up, etc.). In addition to the word, there is also the emotional stimulus expressed in the tone and inflection of your voice. The inflection of your voice can express disappointment, anger, or warmth.
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