Before reading this article, read this one
| Tweet |
|
|
Neurochemicals and behavior tend to be circular. That is, a change in behavior induces changes in neurochemistry, and vice versa. We can cause the brain to release oxytocin through caring touch, especially stroking, and selfless giving or nurturing each other, as a parent would a child. This isn't about sex, but sex can be included in the process, and oxytocin can be released during sex, assuming you have a relationship that allows for those feelings to be present. One night stands with strangers are an example of where oxytocin is not likely to occur during sex. This is because oxytocin is more about intimacy than the lust of sex. This is why sex with someone you care about is so much better. The more you give, the more you receive in return, and the better you both feel as your oxytocin levels rise in union.
In a BDSM scene, the big sensation is about the oxytocin mixed with adrenalin and of course, the dopamine hits. A scene with someone that you know for a long time is much better than a scene with someone you barely know. The dopamine hit associated with a "new conquest" is there of course, but the oxytocin effect is minimal. This is why many in the BDSM community rarely play with someone they don't feel a connection with.
Read more following the articles:
Neurochemicals in the Play
Time to Hard Direct Pain
Bottom goes deeper into subspace
The Top takes the bottom to its limits
Read more following the articles:
Neurochemicals in the Play
Time to Hard Direct Pain
Bottom goes deeper into subspace
The Top takes the bottom to its limits